Tag: single

Bored With the Same Romance

Alasha, My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. The first half of our relationship we barely saw the inside of each other’s apartments, lately that’s all we see. I work a nine to five and his hours vary. When he is off he likes to sit around the house and watch television, on the weekends when I am off I like to travel. I enjoy watching movies and popular shows as much as the next person but I like to mingle with others as well. We don’t have any children and we are financially comfortable. How...

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Please…Make Me An Honest Woman

Alasha, I’ve been in a relationship for two years with a married man I met at my office. After separating from his wife we began a relationship and he moved in with me. I have met his wife once and she doesn’t show any interest toward wanting to rekindle any old flames. I figure this is true because he is always complaining how she never calls concerning their six year old daughters well being. He does not see his daughter often stating the mom is rather difficult to deal with.  I have asked him about moving forward with the...

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I Just Want to be FREE

Alasha, I was married for twelve years and have been divorced for two. My young daughter lives in the home with me and I have gone back to school working towards another degree. Between those two things I have little time if any to socialize. I do have some ladies I call up from time to time just to hang out but I always feel awkward because it’s usually a spur of the moment thing. I’m not interested in a romantic relationship at this point in my life and I don’t want to lead any of these women on....

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Men, Are You Being Offensive Without Knowing It?

At the request of one of my female readers I want to address the stinky elephant in the room! Alasha, What started out as a pleasant experience on a recent date came to an abrupt end. My date was wearing way too much cologne. Driving home I had to roll my windows down from the overwhelming smell. My hands smelled of cologne from our parting handshake and lingered after washing them several times. I had to put my favorite sweater in the cleaners. Can you relay to the men the importance of moderation? Myra Myra, I’ve had your same...

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Can Credit be an Indicator of Commitment to a Relationship?

Alasha, I am dating a man who I just recently found out has terrible credit. He wears nice clothes, has a nice car, takes me to nice restaurants and has given me some pretty nice gifts. I thought his credit issues may have been from a previous marriage or perhaps an unfortunate circumstance such as a foreclosure of a home but neither is the issue. He has never been married or in a long term relationship. I really like this guy but I’m concerned about a possible future with someone who is careless with their finances, what should I...

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Approaching the Opposite Sex, Not as Tricky as you Thought

Alasha, I have a 911 dating situation. I was at a bar last night with some friends and saw this nice looking lady. My friends tried to persuade me to talk to her by offering to buy her a drink. I hate to admit it but I completely froze, I didn’t know what to say or what to do. I don’t have a lot of experience with picking up women. I usually meet ladies through a friend or a friend of a friend. I don’t know how to be myself. How do I approach a woman? Jason Where is...

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