God Remains
I really needed this today! When the world lets you down.... God always remains!
Please…Make Me An Honest Woman
Alasha, I’ve been in a relationship for two years with a married man I met at my office. After separating from his wife we began a relationship and he moved in with me. I have met his wife once and she doesn’t show any interest toward wanting to rekindle any old...
LOVE, GOD
We all need reminders.
I Just Want to be FREE
Alasha, I was married for twelve years and have been divorced for two. My young daughter lives in the home with me and I have gone back to school working towards another degree. Between those two things I have little time if any to socialize. I do have some ladies I...
Fifty Shades of Red After Reading Fifty Shades of Grey
Fifty Shades of Red After Reading Fifty Shades of Grey True confession time. I don’t think I turned red by reading this book – I just needed a title for my article. And for the record, I have never held a job where the words” Mistress” or “Darkness” were part of my...
Aging at Home: a Great Idea or Trouble Ahead?
Aging at home has become a buzz word. And that is understandable because this arrangement has strong selling points: Elders receive personalized attention. However, unless it isnn accomplished by careful repercussions, it can have disastrous repercussions for all...
Men, Are You Being Offensive Without Knowing It?
At the request of one of my female readers I want to address the stinky elephant in the room! Alasha, What started out as a pleasant experience on a recent date came to an abrupt end. My date was wearing way too much cologne. Driving home I had to roll my windows down...
Moments in Motherhood
I remember standing in my kitchen, some 15 yrs ago, staring out the window and saying out loud to no one in particular, “ there's got to be a better way.” I had recently walked away from my career and much to my own surprise, had made the choice to stay home with my...
I AM…How to Choose Your Destiny part II
I've talked about the power of I AM a lot. I AM is one of the seven sacred Hebrew names of God. We are made in his image. When you say I AM you are activating the spark of God within you. When you say I am you are making a statement of fact. Its not I may, I wish, or...
Faith, God, and Religion — FRIENDS
People come and go throughout our lives and some stick around. But what defines a true friend? How easily would you call someone your Best Friend? Is it because you have a lot in common? You may have common goals, common interest, a common sense of humor? I believe...
Can Credit be an Indicator of Commitment to a Relationship?
Alasha, I am dating a man who I just recently found out has terrible credit. He wears nice clothes, has a nice car, takes me to nice restaurants and has given me some pretty nice gifts. I thought his credit issues may have been from a previous marriage or perhaps an...
Approaching the Opposite Sex, Not as Tricky as you Thought
Alasha, I have a 911 dating situation. I was at a bar last night with some friends and saw this nice looking lady. My friends tried to persuade me to talk to her by offering to buy her a drink. I hate to admit it but I completely froze, I didn’t know what to say or...