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Alasha, My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. The first half of our relationship we barely saw the inside of each other’s apartments, lately that’s all we ...

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Alasha, I’ve been in a relationship for two years with a married man I met at my office. After separating from his wife we began a relationship and he moved ...

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Alasha, I was married for twelve years and have been divorced for two. My young daughter lives in the home with me and I have gone back to school working ...

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At the request of one of my female readers I want to address the stinky elephant in the room! Alasha, What started out as a pleasant experience on a recent ...

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Alasha, I am dating a man who I just recently found out has terrible credit. He wears nice clothes, has a nice car, takes me to nice restaurants and has ...

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Alasha, I have a 911 dating situation. I was at a bar last night with some friends and saw this nice looking lady. My friends tried to persuade me to ...

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Alasha, I was in a relationship for almost four years, we had two children together. He did a lot of cheating as well as mental and physical abuse, now it ...

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Alasha, I found out a few months ago my boyfriend of two years was cheating on me with another woman. We have since broken up. After taking a closer look ...

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Alasha, Please help! I am really struggling with being single these days. It feels like everywhere I turn a friend or acquaintance is getting married. I am looking at three ...

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Alasha, I’ve always had a hard time breaking it off with someone I am dating. My normal breakup routine is dodging phone calls, hoping they will eventually get the point ...

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